One Day at a Time

Now that London is two months old things are so  much easier. Were beginning to learn each other and everyday brings a new experience. She is beginning to coo and laugh and becoming more playful and aware of her surroundings. I recently started feeding her rice cereal  which has helped her take  longer naps during the day. Since London really dislikes naps this was a relief for both of us!

However, I have noticed that she has become a little too attached to me. She begins to get very fussy when other people  hold her for too long or when she doesn't see me. Don't get me wrong I love that I am the one that she wants to hold and comfort her but I am worried that this will be an issue when I am returning to work. I really hope she grows out of this soon or leaving her with a babysitter will be a real challenge for us all.

London is not to blame for this attachment. I must admit I have spoiled her. I loved holding her while she napped and as a new mother I did not want to take my eyes off of her. I also hate to hear her cry and London has a way of crying that breaks my heart. But it's time to toughen up and teach her to nap in her crib and not in my arms and that it is okay to let other people care for her too. Any tips on how to do this are greatly appreciated!

Next week London will be three months old. Wow, time is really flying! But I am learning to appreciate all these moments one precious day at a time.

London's Mommy,
Ashanti

London

October 24th 2014 my life changed. It was the most amazing day of my life. I gave birth to my beautiful baby girl, London Amerie at 5.11pm. She weighed 6 pounds 15oz  and was 19 3/4 long. The moment I saw her it hit me full force, for the first time in my life I am officially responsible for someone other then myself.

The first few weeks home were the toughest even with the help of my mom. My mind and body wasn't ready for such big changes. London cried all night and only slept for a few hours during the day. I must admit that I cried some nights unsure of how I would ever adjust to this new life but as time went on I realized it gets easier. Looking at her made all the difference, my beautiful baby girl gave my life new purpose. London is now two months and we have began to learn each other. When she looks at me I see in her eyes that she knows I am her mother. I've never felt so needed. Now every decision I make just doesn't effect me but now I have to think about what is also best for her. I know the responsibility of being a mother will at times be overwhelming, but I am confident that this journey of motherhood  will be amazing